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The Greatest Gift of All

GiftIn watching last minute shoppers scurrying around for that one more perfect gift it made me think that often what people need at Christmas and throughout the year is not so much the material of the world but something more on a deeper level. I call it the greatest gift of all.

The greatest of all gifts is LOVE. You may not be able to find or afford sometimes what you think someone would like. But the greatest of all gifts has another unique characteristic compared to those gifts that are material in nature. It is FREE. Our material gifts may be used up, forgotten, or have no value at some point in time however our love will last people a lifetime.

The power of love is vastly underestimated. It transforms lives. It can be as simple as a hug, a smile, a thank you, a kind act, some listening at a key point in someone's life, some carefully selected words, a thoughtful card or letter, or most of all just time spent with another, stranger or loved one. Remember, the greatest gift is not found in a store nor under a tree, but in the hearts of true friends.

So my friends give the greatest gift of all, give love this Christmas.

Comments

Your point is well taken and very true. People say it all the time. But we are soooo conditioned by everything around us that we think it needs to be a "thing". Eventually, if we are lucky, something happens and we all learn.
Posted by Perrin Cornell, ABR (Windermere RE/NCW) about 1 year ago

Right on Gary! A timely reminder!

Happy Holidays,

David Swierczynski

Posted by David Swierczynski, Lake County, IL Realtor (Century 21 Hometown) about 1 year ago
Awesome Gary.  It is a homemade gift of the best kind.
Posted by Linda Futral about 1 year ago
Merry CHristmas Gary, you are truly blessed to know the real meaning of Christmas is LOVE,  :)
Posted by South Austin Real Estate Blog, (Sky Realty Austin) about 1 year ago
Isn't that the truth.  It is a gift everyone wants and it costs nothing in material dollars.
Posted by Rob Arnold, metro Orlando full service, investor friendly & foreclosure Realtor (Sand Dollar Realty Group, Inc.) about 1 year ago
LOVE = a Baby being born in a manger....the love HE had for all of us to be born, live and die so that we might have eternal life.
Posted by Mary Warren (Referring Agent) about 1 year ago
Gary- "Love makes the world go round" ...money loses value, but sharing and caring don't :) It is so hard in our society to keep this thought in the forefronts of our minds, but reminders help....thank you :)
Posted by Kathy McGraw, Riverside County CA Real Estate (CELLing Realty) about 1 year ago

Perrin: It's just another one of those "the best things in life are free."

David: Seasons Greetings to you.

Linda: I like that "homemade" term. Aren't some of the best gifts, including this one homemade?

Gail: Merry Christmas.

Rob: I've heard it said man needs love more than food.

Mary: The true story of Christmas.

Kathy: Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal. You've got it figured out.

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago
Gary:  In the end, the only thing that really matters is Love.  God taught us this when He showed His love for mankind to send His son to save the world?  Jesus taught us this when He was crucified and substituted Himself to stand in the gap for each of us.  What deeper love can their be?!  Beautiful post, Gary and I think it should be featured.
Posted by Donna Yates, Georgia Realtor Georgia Real Estate,Blue Ridge Mountains (Coldwell Banker High Country Realty) about 1 year ago

Donna: You know your stuff... 

Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago

Gary,

In the rush of our busy lives, at times we may forget our real priorities,...and you said it very well.

Posted by Orange Co. Real Estate~Lynda Eisenmann, Broker-Owner, CRS,CRB,GRI,SRES, Brea, CA (Preferred Home Brokers) about 1 year ago
Lynda: You understand. To know what's really important is a mark of wisdom!
Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago

Good time to slow down. Love is a matter of spending time, not rushing time. This is why we reflect on this at Christmas, when we allow ourselves time to listen and to love.

Merry Christmas

Posted by Jon Zolsky (FunCoast Realty LLC) about 1 year ago
Wonderful post, Gary.   The season is all about love... the love of a Father who gave his only son to the world... the love of Christ who died to wash away our sins.  If we could all pause for a moment in the mad rush to buy the latest game or hottest electronics and remember the Saviour gave his life for us.  It is entirely about love and we should certainly be giving it in abundance.
Posted by Fairbanks Alaska Real Estate Specialists Jesse & Kathy Clifton 907-699-6024 (Jesse Clifton & Associates, REALTORS®) about 1 year ago

Jon: Great point about slowing down. When we are silent we can really listen to our inner voice.

Jesse & Kathy: Right you are that there is an endless supply of love if we only will allow it to flow.

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago
Hi Gary,
Thank you for this wonderful Christmas post.  That's what it is all about and I wish you love, joy and blessings in the New Year.
Posted by Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist (Kingsbridge Realty, Inc) about 1 year ago

Gary,

Very well said.  Our society is so material driven now a days that it is important to take a step back and remember what life is about.

Have a Merry Christmas

Posted by Martin Abeshaus (JAE Commercial Cleaning Services) about 1 year ago

Cynthia: May you and your family receive many blessings now and into the New Year.

Martin: Merry Christmas to you as well!

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago
Gary, I love this post! Well said :)
Posted by Lysa Napolitano, Call Coordinator ~ Century 21 Sundance (Century 21 Sundance) about 1 year ago

I could not agree with you more Gary!  My wife and I just welcomed our first child into the world 3 weeks ago and THAT IS OUR PRESENT TO EACH OTHER THIS YEAR!  Nothing else, nothing material, we both said what else do we really need?

Merry Christmas

Posted by Michael Klijanowicz - Relocation Specialist - Baltimore & Harford County (Baltimore & Harford County Maryland - Long and Foster ) about 1 year ago
Michael: Congratulations to you and your wife. A perfect gift for you all just in time for Christmas. A bundle of joy! Merry Christmas.
Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago
Gary a wonderful holiday post indeed.  I have been saying the same thing as I watch all of the commercials and listen to my friends complaining about their shopping.  It is sad that so many people are saying the just can't wait until it is over.  Perhpas, too many have forgotten the true meaning of the holidays.  Happy Holidays and a wonderful 2008!
Posted by Joan Whitebook, ABR,e-Pro,CEBA Southern New Hampshire (Buyer's Option Realty Services) about 1 year ago

Hi Gary - what a great message you've shared, and sadly too often overlooked.  There is no greater gift to share than love....and a simply wonderful gift to receive as well.

I wish you a wonderful Christmas and a great 2008!
Ann

Posted by Portsmouth NH Homes Condos - Ann Cummings New Hampshire REALTOR® (RE/MAX Coast to Coast - Portsmouth New Hampshire) about 1 year ago

Joan: There will always be the whiners among us. But you can see through that and know what Christmas and gift giving is all about. Merry Christmas!

Ann: Thanks for your beautiful comments. Love the lights!

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago

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