In difficult and trying times for people I have noticed many people give "happy" advice. I see this in the real estate industry of late. Be a positive thinker they say. Put a smile on your face and things will be better. Have a good attitude. On the surface all this is fine, but I think it needs to be overlayed on what I call CALM WATERS.
People need to develop inner peace. Tranquility in their life despite the roller coaster nature of circumstances. You do this with a rock solid faith in family, friends, and your spirituality. Believe in yourself. Maintain positive self-talk. When agitation or trouble or negativity comes your way, pause at first and don't react. Reclaim the calm waters that have been inside you all along to tap into. Then everything will be fine.
Gary-
Were you inspired? ;)
Live good. Be happy. Be tranquil.
-Mimi
Gary,
Very true. I often take a step back and reflect on crows and sunsets or just the shade of the sky when I come up against something that is troubling me. Usually the answer is revealed by doing this.
When it comes to negativity, I do my best to limit exposure to it....
Jo
Gary...Sometimes I'm able to do exactly that and other times it's as though I haven't learned a thing and just react from the gut. Taking a minute is much better. I wish I did it more often.
Thank you.
Kathleen
Carole: Sometimes stepping back and being calm before reacting makes all the difference in the world.
Mimi: Your thoughts always inspire! No doubt.
Jo: I agree, steer clear of negativity.
Thank you Gary for an other wonderful post... It hit home for me! I admire your resource of wisdom. Indeed: People need to develop inner peace. Tranquility in their life despite the roller coaster nature of circumstances.
I'll take your advise to heart.
Arina: Thanks for stopping by. If your core is at peace, everything else will work itself out. I'm a big believer in taking big breaths and (being quiet) in times of turmoil, before making my next move. It's very powerful! You just have to have that peace inside to deal with everything that comes at you on the outside.
Karen: I like scenic pictures.
Marchel: I'm glad you and I know the Prince of Peace.
Joey: Thanks.
Lynn: You are such a hard worker. I need to try Pilates. I hear it is great!
Amy: I try to write something meaningful.
Kay: When out on lakes I love it when the water is real still with no wind.
Jesse & Kathy: The pause before making the next move is the key.
Gary,
Keeping your cool in any situation is the best advice. Even in a disagreement or argument, if you keep calm, it will not escalate into a battle.
Like we said in the 70's, peace, brother.
I felt the same way just a couple days ago. I needed serenity and a touch of "Spring", so I added a photo with flowers to one of my posts.
That's a gorgeous photo with the clouds and water scene..good therapy!