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Realtors Have All The Answers and an Arabian Horse Story

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As a REALTOR, our clients expect many answers. They want them accurate, they want them fast, and by the way you should know everything. Since discovering Google on the web, I don't know if you pull this trick off or not, but if you are unsure about the spelling of a word, misspell it into Google, and it will come back and say, Did you mean: with the corrected word or options of what it might have been. Very cool. With Google we now all know everything. NOT!!

I will tell you what I do know (the Realtor with all the answers part) doing so by way of an Arabian Horse story to illustrate it.

Arabian Horse

It is said that there was once a gentleman in the Middle East. His only possession that really amounted to anything for him, his wife and son, who lived in a little hovel, was a gorgeous Arabian mare. The mare was absolute perfection.

The neighbors always came by and said how lucky he was to have this one beautiful mare. He said he didn't know whether it was good or bad, he just knew he had this lovely mare.

Well, one night she broke out of the corral and when he got up the next morning, he discovered that she was gone. All the neighbors came by and said how terrible, how bad it was that the mare was gone. He said he didn't know whether it was good or bad, all he knew was that the mare was gone.

One morning about a week and a half later, she came back and had seven beautiful Arab stallions with her. She brought those in the corral with her. They were all smitten with her, so they went into the corral too. Now all the neighbors came by and said what wonderful luck he had. They said, "You have seven beautiful stallions along with your mare back." He said, "I don't know whether it's good or bad, all I know is I got the mare back and seven stallions with her.

So while they looked them over, the son decided to break the stallions so they could be ridden and they could sell them. One of the stallions threw him and broke his leg. So he was laid up with a broken leg. They didn't have those little pins they use now so you could get up and go. He was laid up with a splint.

The neighbors came by and said, "That's bad, your son has a broken leg." He said, "I don't know whether it's good or bad, I just know my son has a broken leg.

About this time the king sent his men through the area and took all able-bodied young men to send them off on one of his war ventures. The son couldn't go because he had a broken leg. The neighbor's sons all had to go. The neighbors came over and said how lucky the man was because his son didn't have to go because he had a broken leg. He said, "I don't know whether it's good or bad, I just know my son has a broken leg and didn't have to go with the Army.

So, the moral of the story is I KNOW I DON'T KNOW WHETHER AN OUTCOME WILL BE GOOD OR BAD, and I'm ok with that and you will never know for sure. It is a trusting of life that takes a little faith. A bad thing that has happened to you may be a good thing with a valuable lesson tucked inside. Maybe a tough experience will open a new door, make you sensitive to other people, or change you for the better. Allow it to unfold in its due course. Don't rely on Google for all your answers. TRUST LIFE.

Comments

What a beautiful post, Gary.  There are times when I look back and think "Woulda, coulda, shoulda" but then I wouldn't be where I am now.  Wouldn't that be sad.
Posted by Lisa Heindel, New Orleans West Bank Real Estate (Keller Williams Realty Crescent City West Bank Partners) about 1 year ago
Gary, well illustrated as always, if it weren't for the lessons how would we ever grow - change is inevitable, but growth is a choice or something like that :)
Posted by Diane McDermott, Real Estate Broker, Charlotte NC (REALTOR®, GRI, Landis e2 Real Estate, LLC) about 1 year ago
I wonder if we stress too much over things beyond our control, what life brings us every day is what we have to handle and deal with, when things become predicable then there is no sense getting up in the morning. A new challenge is the spice of life.
Posted by Steve Loynd, Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc., Loon Mt, NH. about 1 year ago

Lisa: Most say they wouldn't trade where they are right now with the lessons learned, although they fought their way all the way into the future.

Diane: Some grow older but never grow up, if they don't learn the lessons.

Steve: Great point. The media always thinks we have more control than we really do. Then stresses us out for not making changes to things out of our control. The unknown does keep each day interesting. Always another chance to get it right!!

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago
Wonderful post!  I love reading things like this that help put life into perspective!
Posted by Southern Maryland Real Estate~ Jonathan Benya (Century 21 New Millennium) about 1 year ago
Gary - creative post - and I love the picture of the stallion. I agree with you that learning the lessons is important in life.
Posted by Sharon Paxson Newport Beach Real Estate (Prudential California Realty, DRE License 01501912) about 1 year ago
Amen, Amen! You know how strongly I feel about "I don't know". Important to keep an open mind and look at all possibilties.
Posted by "The Maple Valley Specialist!" Colleen Fischesser Broker/Owner 425-432-5400 (RE/MAX Select Real Estate) about 1 year ago

Jonathan: Seeing things from the big picture is always helpful I agree.

Sharon: Thanks, some take awhile getting the lessons part down.

Colleen: You're right. Those who go about saying they know everything, RUN AWAY!

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago
Gary, everything in life happens in the "process" of life itself----we tend to call things good and bad---but it really isn't the "truth"
Posted by Charles Buell, Seattle, WA, Home Inspector (Charles Buell Inspections.com) about 1 year ago
Gary, it is a delight to read something so well put.  Thanks, nicely done.
Posted by Dottie about 1 year ago
Great post. It seems we try to put a value on everything. We want to label things good or bad, when in fact they just ARE.
Posted by Rosario Lewis, GRI ~ DDR Realty, Orange County, NY (DDR Realty) about 1 year ago
Gary - as always, a fantastic post with a great lesson!  You really do "get it" and I so enjoy reading your words of wisdom every day!
Posted by Leesa L. Finley, REALTOR®/RE Strategist Wake Forest NC Real Estate and Area Info (CIRCA PROPERTIES - Your Wake Forest/North Raleigh Specialist) about 1 year ago
Gary, It's kind of fun never knowing what's around the corner....and so many things I thought might be bad WERE good!  Good lessons here.
Posted by Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City) about 1 year ago

 

Great story!  I am frustrated in a comment thread on ActiveRain by a member who wants to judge blogs, bloggers and blogging strategies...  

 

Posted by Maureen McCabe Central OH Homes (Real Living HER Worthington MaureenMcCabe.com ) about 1 year ago

Charles: Exactly.

Dottie: You're welcome. I had heard this story awhile back.

Rosario: Right, life just is, it is neutral.

Leesa: Thank you, I try.

Carole: We do pre-judge the good or bad or try to figure out the ending too fast.

Maureen: Suspending judgment in many areas of our lives would serve us well. Ignore critics. They will always be there, and it is just there opinion.

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago
Thanks for the story Gary, it makes a very good point about situations that occur in our day to day lives.
Posted by Joey Remondino Broker, GRI, E-Pro (StoneHouse Realty Inc) about 1 year ago

Good story Gary!  It reminds me that too many people try to control too many things.  If we all could live like this man.  Things are what they are.  Yes, we can make things better or worse, and that usually happens better or worse, because of our attitudes.

Have a Fabulous Real Estate Day!

Anona   

Posted by Anona Large-Oak Ridge, TN Real Estate (Realty Executives Associates) about 1 year ago
Great Post. I absolutely agree with you of learning a lesson in life. Hoping only the best will happen for us....
Posted by Sasha Miletic - Windsor Real Estate (RE/MAX Preferred Realty Ltd.) about 1 year ago
Gary:  As for me, I believe God intends it that way.  I mean a bad experience with something good tucked inside.  Seems to me that we can look at several horrible situations right in our own country in recent years and as bad as they were, there was still good to come out of each one.  I saw a story last night that made me think about this and fits with your post.  When Katrina destroyed parts of New Orleans and surrouding areas and devastated so many people, (and I watched this in total horror through tears on TV) the story last night was how the rebuilding of some of those areas has now given teens at risk; teens that were in gangs; something productive and positive to do.  And they are learning life skills which has literally set these young people on a much better path for their lives than what they had before the storm.  There is a silver lining behind every dark cloud.  It's very difficult to see or even believe at times.
Posted by Donna Yates, Georgia Realtor Georgia Real Estate,Blue Ridge Mountains (Coldwell Banker High Country Realty) about 1 year ago
Wonderful story Gary, I think I will use it many time from now (if you don't have copyright :), because as a West Toronto realtor I get hundred of questions like:"for how long...? and is this roof for next 50 years...? and this school is..?" and despite my biggest effort, I can't answer all client's question's, even with google's help!
Posted by Anonymous about 1 year ago

Joey: We can't know everything.

Anona: It is what it is, you are right.

Sasha: Learn a lesson each day.

Donna: His mysterious ways.

Jill: The story is a public domain story.

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago

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