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Life Is ALL About Second Chances

Adopt MeWith my reverse wired brain leave it up to me to see a completely different lesson in the Federal bailout of banks and lending institutions.

 Life Is ALL About Second Chances.

While the example in this case is not of the most noble, think about our whole spectrum of life. Who would not like a second chance to get it right financially in business, with averting a life threatening illness, to patch up a relationship or begin anew with a new one? I think we all in life, like those fresh and clean sheets of paper to start marking down on them the new story. Toss the old story out the window.

We seem to have this infinite capacity to mess up. We can only draw hope from being given second chances. Even the God of the universe is an entire story of second chances. Think of the Jonah and the whale story. Now THERE was a reluctant servant that got a second chance to do his mission right. I never could figure out why the whale didn't just digest him, end of story.

You've got to look at adoptions of children and pets as equally great second chance stories.

So take heart with the craziness going around you some days in the world, and perhaps even in your own life. Maybe second chances are what life is all about. Today's disaster is setting the stage for something better. It's only a matter of time till you find out. Always keep hope alive. And I'll take that little doggie in the window, thank you very much!!

                   May You Always Receive A Second Chance

 

Comments

Gary... this is exactly the perspective I would have expected from you. Everyone deserves a second chance... but I'm not sure I'm up for adopting a rabid pit bull. :)

Posted by Fairbanks Alaska Real Estate Specialists Jesse & Kathy Clifton 907-699-6024 (Jesse Clifton & Associates, REALTORS®) about 1 year ago
Gary, while I share the idea in theory I'm still not sold on it as it relates to the bailout. Something had to be done granted, but I have a really bad taste in my mouth over the whole thing. Cute pup pic!
Posted by "The Maple Valley Specialist!" Colleen Fischesser Broker/Owner 425-432-5400 (RE/MAX Select Real Estate) about 1 year ago

Jesse and Colleen: I said the bailout was probably not a good example, however here's my twist. Let's euthanize the rabid pit bull then we'll have a nice new empty crate to go to the pet store and get a new: Cat???  LOL. A new beginning nevertheless!!

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago

EXCELLENT blog Gary!  We can ether get stressed out about this or we can find the positive in it and move forward.  Learn from our mistakes!

Brooke

Posted by Brooke Shepherd (RE/MAX Properties) about 1 year ago

Gary - I love the picture of the puppy, and I agree that everyone deserves a second chance, I'll take that doggie in the window too!!!

Posted by Sharon Paxson Newport Beach Real Estate (Prudential California Realty, DRE License 01501912) about 1 year ago

Thank goodness for second chances!  Most second chances are where we find happiness.

Posted by Sherry Scales, ABR,GRI,REALTOR (RE/MAX Austin Skyline) about 1 year ago
Gary-I figure since God gave us all a second chance when Jesus died for ours sins then who are we not to give the same to others. Now, I'm not saying that is easy as humans but sometimes we do have to try. Now a third or 4th chance that's up for a bigger debate as a human, unless of course, it's us asking God to forgive us AGAIN when we've messed up for the 3rd, 4th or more time. Then naturally we all want that. Personally, I've been forgiven more times than I care to remember, but the 2 most important second chances I've been given are when as a teenager I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior and again 5 years ago when my life was spared after my cancer diagnosis so for me second chances are definitely doable. Great post as always, "now let that sweet baby out of that cage" :-) Take care my friend
Posted by Pat Preston (RE/MAX 1st Olympic Lynchburg Va) about 1 year ago

Even pitbulls deserve a second chance :-)  Lok at the success story with Michael Vicks dogs.  My life has been all about 2nd chances and sometimes 3rd a 4th.  Thanks for reminding me to keep it all in perspective.

Posted by Cindy Jones-Northern Virginia Real Estate & Military Relocation Services (RE/MAX Allegiance #1 RE/MAX Company in the World) about 1 year ago

Gary:  I wtinessed one of those great second chances today.  Went to a party for a family that wanted to introduce their newly adopted granddaughter.  She was adopted from Russia, and had some health issues.  The Russians handling their end of the adoption actually asked the parents to be, "Are you sure you want her?  She may not live?"  Three months here in the US she is thriving!  Her health is improving and she looks like she will be fine.  Talk about a second chance!

Posted by Chris Ann Cleland, GRI (Long & Foster, Gainesville, VA) about 1 year ago

On occassion in my life I have needed more than second chances----probably even when I didn't deserve them.

Posted by Charles Buell, Seattle, WA, Home Inspector (Charles Buell Inspections.com) about 1 year ago

You are the greatest optimist Gary!! How much is that doggie in the window????

Posted by Cathy Lee ASP, Danville, San Ramon CA (CL Design Services Home Staging) about 1 year ago
Gary... Sometimes it's hard to offer that second chance. It might take some humility in addition to forgiveness, but second chances can often lead to "fantastic finishes!"
Posted by Richard Weisser Coweta Fayette Real Estate ERA United Realty about 1 year ago

Gary, were you at my church today? I've now heard this message twice, always take note when something is said to you 2 or 3 times, right?

Posted by Missy Caulk-Ann Arbor- Realtor(R)- Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams-Ann Arbor) about 1 year ago

So true Gary, life IS all about second chances, thanks for reminding me :)         

Posted by Kara Casamassina, "Boomers and beyond..." (The Carolina Real Estate Company) about 1 year ago

I have always believed in Second Chances Gary, nobody is perfect and its all about learning from our mistakes and striving to be better of the game of life.  Thanks for the 80s song too :)

Posted by Justin Williams - Loan Officer (Prosperity Mortgage) about 1 year ago

GARY, I just got my cable back yesterday and now I know what Missy was talking about.  I think it was better when I was in the dark.  Your message is a nice breathe of fresh air from everything I've seen and heard.

Posted by Marchel Peterson Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro ABR (Results Realty) about 1 year ago

AMEN to second chances! Now...the important thing is to make the most of the second chances we are given. I like the way your brain is wired. GBU, Gary!

Posted by Elizabeth Nieves - Bilingual Raleigh - Durham North Carolina Real Estate Team (The Elizabeth Nieves Realty Group) about 1 year ago

Gary-I think people deserve second chances as well. Where would the children of Israel be if God had not given them a second and third and fourth, etc. chance?  Good blog.

Posted by Laura Watts (Positive Properties, LLC) about 1 year ago

Gary

Wonderful perspective. My problem is I am a sucker for pets...used to not be that way . Two more stray kittens "adopted" me this month. Oh well it must have been meant to be.

Posted by Trey Thurmond, College Station , Texas Homes (Classic Realty Associates) about 1 year ago

Hi Brooke: I vote for positive and move forward : )

Sharon: I thought an adoption illustration went well with the second chance. I see you have a soft heart too. I knew that about you!!

Sherry: Second chances are everywhere and third and fourth too.

Pat: Your commentary is getting more profound and outstanding each time you write. Thank you so much not only about God giving us second chances and forgiveness but also about triumphing over cancer. Miracles do happen!! I wrote a post awhile back that I have the smartest commenters here and you are proving me right again. : )

Cindy: All right. The pit bulls get a second chance thanks to you : )

Chris Ann: What a great story of thriving on the second chance. See, you just have to give it some time. Wonderful story.

Charles: You make an EXCELLENT point about not even deserving a second chance. That's what they call grace. Amazing stuff that most people don't grasp. Charles, my man, you have FOUND it!! They even wrote a song about it.

Cathy: For adoption purposes all they ask is you buy some dog food to take home with it : )

Richard: Pride has to be swallowed but I agree with another chance a "fantastic finish" may be in store at the end of the road. And then what happens?? JOY!!! What a deal!

Hi Missy: I was sitting in the row behind you at church in Ann Arbor. There must be something to this message if you're hearing it again. Take it to heart and be reminded of it in life.

Kara: You are welcome.

Justin: Good point about our human imperfection. The more the need to try again.

Marchel: I can see where that ignorance is bliss without the cable. Glad you are connected again. But second chances help out when things didn't go right the first time round.

Elizabeth: Making the most of second chances is a great thought. Glad you appreciate that I see things backwards.

Laura: Those early day people of Israel were so stubborn, and always doing their own thing.

Trey: We're going to have to call your place the secondary Animal Shelter of College Station pretty soon Trey. What a kind heart!!

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago
I sing Doggie in the Window to my little guy most every night. ; )
Posted by Meridian Idaho Real Estate ~ Pam Pugmire (Market Pro Real Estate) about 1 year ago

Pam: That is such a fun song. Your kids are so lucky to have you as a MOM  : ) Now you can add the moral of the story about how wonderful it is to have second chances in life, to get them yourself or to give them to an adopted puppy or another person!!

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago
Gary-Thank you very much for the compliment. Coming from the best and most profound blogger that means a WHOLE LOT. :-))))
Posted by Pat Preston (RE/MAX 1st Olympic Lynchburg Va) about 1 year ago

Pat: The check's in the mail  : ) But seriously, you not only help me with your thoughts but everyone else too who reads it. You have great depth in you and it comes across loud and clear with your thinking. I only make GENUINE compliments so what I say is on the mark with you. Just keep up your great work. You are FANTASTIC my friend!!

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago

Gary the doggy is so cute I could adopt him but then I remember I can't have pets.

I think at some point in our lives we appreciate a second chance.

 

Posted by Jennifer Fivelsdal, Fishkill NY (Keller Williams Realty Team - Real Estate Agent) about 1 year ago

Everyone deserves a second chance... but not necessarily with me!!  Great message Gary, and a great way to start the day.

 

Posted by Susie Blackmon-Maggie Valley Waynesville Horse Person/NC Broker/Realtor (Susie Blackmon LLC) about 1 year ago

Gary, that is the cutest little puppy picture!!  I would want to take that little guy right home with me!  I believe in second chances but I believe that the government bailout should be of all of the unfortunate people in foreclosure, not of the banks that encouraged them to borrow more than they could obviously afford to pay back.  Bailouts and second chances for corporate CEO's that make more in a year than most people make in 5 years makes me physically nauseous. 

Posted by Susan Mangigian, West Chester PA Realtor RE/MAX Preferred, ABR (RE/MAX Preferred, West Chester, PA, RS152252A) about 1 year ago

Hey there Jennifer: Second chances provide new starts.

Hello Susie: I know the feeling about getting personally burned in life. It is absolutely the hardest to forgive those that directly hurt US!!

Hi Susan: I couldn't agree with you more. They were trying in this proposed bill to phase in the bailout and also have no rewards for these corporate CEOs. I vote for your program.

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago
Gary--Leave it to you to some up with a positive way to view this mess! Very cute puppy picture....I am certain he would get a 2nd, 3rd and 4th chance.
Posted by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (REMAX Specialists) about 1 year ago

Amen. How interesting that my church services was on this very topic yesterday.

Posted by Team Honeycutt (Allen Tate) about 1 year ago
I thought the moral of that song was to own a dog and a gun 'cause you never know when someone will try to rob you. : ) haha
Posted by Meridian Idaho Real Estate ~ Pam Pugmire (Market Pro Real Estate) about 1 year ago

Gary - I pesonally like the idea of Main St. getting a 2nd chance along with Wall St. - As for that dog, he gets as many chances as he wants - BTW, I think you need a puppy!

Posted by Carol Culkin (Houlihan Lawrence Realty) about 1 year ago

Terri: With the puppies they deserve many chances I agree.

Pat: You do have a lot in you to say, I am convinced of it. I am loving your detailed comments now, but will also enjoy your blog as it comes along.

Allen: This makes a good sermon, I agree.

Pam: A dog is a great protector of the house, you are right.

Carol: Main Street as seen on Monday got a second chance. I do need a new dog, you are right.

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago

Gary - I have had more than my share of second chances, and made them good, some third chances even - my marriage to a wonderful guy!

Posted by Virginia Hepp - Mesquite NV MLS - Sun City Mesquite - Buyer Representative (ERA - Mesquite NV Homes For Sale) about 1 year ago

Regarding adopting homeless pets -- this is a bit off the beaten path, but I read this morning about a group of real estate agents in the Phoenix area who are rescuing abandoned foreclosure pets. In one house, there were 8 dogs and 15 puppies left behind. The previous owners had opened a kitchen drawer, dumped in a bag of dog food and left the gate open so the dogs could drink the dirty green pool water.

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Posted by Elizabeth Weintraub, Sacramento Short Sale Agent, 916.233.6759, Lyon RE (Lyon Real Estate) about 1 year ago

I don't know where I would be if it were not for second chances!  Learning from life's experiences is what makes us who we are and makes us strive to become better.  If things always went perfectly in life, we wouldn't learn much.

Posted by Colorado Springs Realty Patricia Beck (Re/Max Real Estate Group, GRI) about 1 year ago

Gary: Thank you for the inspriation. Everyone needs a second chance from time to time.

As an aside, we have 2 Labrador Retrievers that we adopted from the Pasadena Humane Society. They are the most incredible companions. So generous and loving. I don't want to imagine their fate if we hadn't given them a second chance.

Posted by Michelle Minch Home Staging Los Angeles & Pasadena, CA (Moving Mountains Design Home Staging, Pasadena, CA) about 1 year ago

Great post Gary! I'm all for second chances and depending on what or who gets a second chance hopefully a lesson will be learned. Liked the music too!! Take care! 

Posted by Teresa Harris ~ Denver . Lake Norman . Charlotte (Holbrooks Real Estate, Inc. ) about 1 year ago

Gary, I am one of those that was given a second chance – almost 57 years ago now…  I was adopted. 

 

“If you get a second chance,

grab it with both hands.

If it changes your life, let it.”

 

 

Raleigh Realtor Pamela St. Peter

Posted by Lee & Pamela St. Peter Your Raleigh NC Realtors ~ GRI, CRS, ABR (Prudential York Simpson Underwood Realty) about 1 year ago

Gary,

Great post! I believe that each morning we awaken and face a new day, we are given a second, third...etc. Thanks for sharing!

Posted by Lillie L. Painia, Tri-R Realty Group about 1 year ago
I love your premise about 'second chance'........and you're absolutely right, our God is a God of 2nd chances........and yes don't we all wish we had them....however.......I'm not sure if this 'bailout' is something I would put in the category of 2nd chances...;-) although I guess it depends on who's claiming them right? :-)
Posted by Liz Moras ~Chilliwack Realtor, Chilliwack,Hope,Langley,Abbotsford (Harrison Hot Springs, Cultus Lake) about 1 year ago

I'm a firm beliver of second chances. With all the prayers my little dog, "Chanel" received from our AR members she beat all the odds and has recovered from renal failure. Like a miracle. Thanks for such a positive post.

Posted by Lizette Fitzpatrick - Broker-Realtor® Kentucky Homes - Horse Farms (Lizette Realty - Lexington KY - Richmond KY) about 1 year ago

Gary, I don't know where I'd be today if I hadn't been given second chances. Hope is all about believing in second chances - nice post. Thanks for reminding me of what I'm so thankful for.

Posted by Lynn Pineda-Coral Springs REALTOR, Short Sale Specialist (Keller Williams Partners Realty) about 1 year ago

Gary, I am doing just that... taking a second chance and not only here on AR but in life in general. Can you adopt me ? -:) ... I feel lucky today!

Posted by Arina S. Hanciulescu about 1 year ago

Gary, we all need to give second chances and it sure is nice if we mess up for someone to give us second chance! Without this we may never see the best to come - great post! :)

Posted by Linda Breeding (Keller Williams Realty ) about 1 year ago

That is a delightfully cute puppy! Have you seen the thingy I have on the side of my blog for the animal shelters? There are always cute puppies on that. And horses and iguanas...

Posted by Sarah Nopp, REALTOR(R), CRS. RE/MAX Four Seasons, Olympia WA (RE/MAX Four Seasons) about 1 year ago

Gary, Love the positive spin on the situation.  Great post!

Posted by Michele Hess, Home Stager Rockford - Simply Staged Inc (Simply Staged Inc.) about 1 year ago
Gary, Thanks for another positive message and another cute dog photo. The second chance is the best thing in the world, because usually when it comes around you may 1. recognize it and 2. you may appreciate it more than the first chance that slipped through your fingers. Betina
Posted by Betina Foreman-Serving Lake Travis area and the greater Austin area! ((512)771-6318 Keller Williams Real Estate) about 1 year ago
Gary, Thanks for another positive message and another cute dog photo. The second chance is the best thing in the world, because usually when it comes around you may 1. recognize it and 2. you may appreciate it more than the first chance that slipped through your fingers. Betina
Posted by Betina Foreman-Serving Lake Travis area and the greater Austin area! ((512)771-6318 Keller Williams Real Estate) about 1 year ago

Second, third. fourth chances...  Just keep forging ahead in spite of any and all.  Keep your chin up!

The human spirit is amazing!  As a species, we are almost as durable as cockroaches...  with the right attitude, that is.  (btw, this is a compliment).

I have always been so impressed by the resilience and fortitude of people.  I am honored to be human!  Gary, I know that sounds strange, but I really think we are a great species. 

 

Posted by Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Real Estate Connection about 1 year ago

I've been waiting to put this at the top of the Optimist Board.  That time is now.

Posted by Mirela Monte, Your Myrtle Beach Real Estate Connection about 1 year ago

Oh, I can almost not take it. I'm a sucker for the eyes of dogs.  You've blinded me with the pooch and then pulled me into bail out material.  You're a master of blogging.

Posted by Chris Elizabeth Griffith ~ Bonita Springs Fl Real Estate (Downing-Frye Realty, Bonita Springs, FL) about 1 year ago

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